Mistress Eva Lordes

"My journey as a Professional Dominatrix has spanned over Twenty Five amazing years. I truly love being served and obeyed. I may be a strict and demanding Mistress, but I truly care about the well being of my subs. I am very fortunate that many of my subs have served me for years. Even though I find one time sessions fun, I feel the hottest play happens over time. The more I get know you better both physically and psychologically, the better I can really dominate you!"


Mistress Eva Lordes

The Sensual Sadist

I gain pleasure by watching the reactions of my subs as they suffer for me. I love pain sluts! This is one of the many ways you could serve me. My SM play can range from light to very heavy. As part of being an experienced Dominatrix, I have taken the time to learn how to dominate my subs both skillfully and safely.  I enjoy pushing my subs but I believe in safe, sane, and consensual play. Your hard limits will be honored. I use safe words and signals in my sessions to alleviate any chance for miscommunication happening between us. I feel this helps my subs get past their nervousness easier so they can better focus on serving and pleasing me.


The Phone Mistress Icon

In the year 2000, a sub of mine asked if I was taking calls on a phone sex site called, Niteflirt? I had honestly never heard of it before. Out of curiosity, I decided to sign up to see if I would enjoy doing it. Much to my surprise, I really loved it! I have lots of fun there. I have now had over 20,000 calls! Phone Domination is one of the safest and most discreet forms of kinky play you can have with someone!


Through my submissive callers, I have been able to explore all kinds of BDSM, fetishes and some other forms of kink that I had never tried before.  It has helped me to better understand my subs psychologically on a much deeper level. One example  is that I am now very comfortable with giving verbal humiliation and degradation. Which has also benefited my live sessions because I have no problem tearing down my subs verbally when they need or deserve it! Through the years, I have been on several phone sex sites but I am now exclusively on Niteflirt.


Having phone sessions is the perfect option if you are still too nervous to serve me in person or you live too far away. You can get to know me better and become more comfortable serving me at your own pace. Our sessions and your identity are kept completely confidential. Even though it's not required, I encourage the subs who serve me in person to also have Phone Sessions with me between our sessions to deepen our connection. With the Covid-19 pandemic, this has become even more vital.

Mistress Eva Lordes
Mistress Eva Lordes

The Fetishist

I can still vividly remember how it felt to slide on my first Leather coat and pair of boots. The soft texture of the Leather and their intoxicating scent! I still love wearing Leather the most but I also enjoy PVC, Hosiery, Gloves, Corsets, and High Heels. I also have a Boot Fetish so you will often see me wearing them year round! I find them so sexy and powerful! I really enjoy exploring all kinds of Fetishes with my subs. Whether its wearing Fetish wear, having my feet worshiped or making you my dirty ashtray! The possibilities are only limited by our imagination!

The Educator and Mentor

It has been an honor to be taught BDSM by some great Mistresses and Masters through the years. I have also attended numerous BDSM conventions and workshops across the United States. I strongly believe in giving back to the BDSM community by educating others about this Lifestyle that I passionately love. I offer classes to couples and individuals who are just beginners to BDSM play or wish to take their skills to the next level. My classes are custom made to the indivdual needs and experience of my students.  I take the time to really understand the goals of my students so I can teach them as effectively as possible. Trust me, my classes are never boring but I always empathize the importance of play safety. I also enjoy teaching ways to help foster healthier Power Exchange relationships. All genders and sexual orientations are welcome to take my classes. Just arrive with an open mind and an eagerness to learn!