The Sensual Sadist:

I gain great pleasure by watching the reactions of my subs as they suffer for me. It is one of the many ways you may serve me. My S&M play can range from light to extreme. I love to push my subs but I believe in safe, sane, and consensual play. Its also important for my subs to be aware of the risks involved in the types of submissive play they enjoy.  As part of being an experienced Dominatrix, I have taken the time to learn how to Dominate you skillfully and safely.  I know if I break my toys, I cannot play with them again! I use safe words and signals with subs serving me for the first time. This alleviates any chance of miscommunication happening between us and it allows us to enjoy our Session more. Then you are able to truly surrender and experience "subspace" with me.

My journey as a Lifestyle Mistress and Professional Dominatrix spans over Twenty Five years. My Dominant nature and my desire for Kink actually started when I was quite young. I embraced the power of my sexuality and the need to control and dominate willing submissive men. I have always loved being served and pleased. Yes, I am strict and demanding but I also care about the well being of my subs. I am very fortunate that many of my subs have been serving me on a long term or ongoing basis. Even though one time play sessions are hot and fun, I feel the hottest play happens as I get to truly know my sub both psychologically and physically.  The better I understand you, the better I can Dominate you! Its vital  that trust is established and maintained so the submissive feels safe enough to push themselves to greater heights of surrender. I will use my diabolical skills to have you groveling before me in no time!

The Fetishist:

I can still vividly remember how it felt to slide on my first Leather coat. The soft texture of the Leather and its arousing intoxicating scent! I still love wearing Leather the most but I also enjoy PVC, Hosiery, Gloves, High Heels and Glam. I also have a Boot Fetish and you will often see me wearing some kind of Leather Boots year round! I find them so sexy and powerful! I really enjoy exploring all kinds of Fetishes with my subs. Whether its wearing Fetish wear, having my feet worshiped or making you my dirty ashtray! The possibilities are only limited by our imagination!

The Educator and Mentor:

I have had the honor of being taught Domination by some amazing Dominants. I have also attended numerous BDSM Conventions and Workshops across the United States. I strongly believe in giving back to the BDSM community by educating others about this Lifestyle I passionately love. I offer classes to couples and individuals who are just starting to play or wish to take their BDSM skills to the next level. My classes are custom made to the needs of my students.  I take the time to really understand the mindset and goals of my students so I can teach them as effectively as possible. Trust me, my classes are never boring but I always empathize the importance of playing skillfully and safely. I also show ways to help foster a healthier Power Exchange relationship with their Dom/mes or subs. All sexual orientations are welcome to take my classes.  Just arrive with an open mind and an eagerness to learn about BDSM!


The Phone Mistress Icon:

In the year 2000, a sub of mine asked if I was taking calls on a phone sex site called, Niteflirt. I had never heard of it and I honestly had never considered ever doing any sort of Phone Domination before.  But I was curious so I decided to sign up to see if I would enjoy doing it. Much to my pleasant surprise, I really loved it and I have had a lot of fun there. Phone Domination and Camming is one of the safest forms of sexual play you can have!


Through my submissive callers I have been able to discreetly explore all kinds BDSM, fetishes and some other forms of kink that I had never tried before.  It has also allowed me understand some of the psychological aspects of my subs on a much more deeper level. As a result, I am very comfortable with giving Verbal Humiliation and Degradation.  Which has also benefited my Live Sessions because I have absolutely no problem verbally breaking down my subs as needed!  Through the years, I have been on quite a few Phone Sex sites but I am mainly on Niteflirt and Iwantphone for now.


I recently began to offer Phone with Skype Cam Sessions from my Dungeon. Both of these are perfect options if you are still too nervous to serve me in person or you live too far away. You get to know me and become more comfortable with me at your own pace. Plus your identity is kept completely private.


Even though not required, I encourage the subs who I train in person to also have Phone/Cam Domination Sessions with me in between their sessions to further deepen their submission and connection with  me.

Mistress Eva Lordes in Fishnet Stockings.



1-800-863-5478 Ext: 9439179

$1.99 per minute.

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Durham , North Carolina USA
Session/Booking Hour NOON - 11:00 PM
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